Dear Friend

You and You only
Dear Friends,
My heart is filled with overflowing joy and hope at this moment. Moments makes life. It is the little moments give a lot of meaning to our life. When you look back at your life, only the moments remains like a tower in a deserted island, your fame, your talent, your achievement all swallowed by the time only the moments of laughter, heartfelt chat with your friends, remain with you. So it is in our hand to make each passing second into experience which remains with us forever.
So I hope and desire that, as we pass through this life changing experience, let each and every second of our life become a historical moment. When we glance through the history books, we find people who changed course of history by their pure intelligence, will power, skill and talent, innovation and creation. We belonged to a land which produced a great leader, like Gandhi, thinker like Vivekananda, a great emperor like Akbar, Asoka, and great philosopher like Buddha, a great writer like Tagore, and a great painter like Ravivarma, and a great matimaticain like Ramanujam, and a great social reformer like Dayanandha Sarawathi. Each one of them had an effect in their respective field, they are the people who changed the course of history.
Throughout the history we find individuals making huge difference to collective conscious of the society. Actually they able to inspire people, to put everything behind and sacrifice everything they had and move towards common goodness.
So why we are discussing all this here, because we believe that each one of us can be that individual who changed the ways people live their life, we have dream of creating leaders.
Leader is the one who lead others to the goal, who sees the best in everyone and bring that out. Leader is the one who show the way and give courage to others to walk with him to unknown territories and one who give sense of victory to others before the result, who is the pillar of comfort for others in trouble times.
Wonderful thing of life is, you need not to be prodigy to be the leader, nor do you need extraordinary skills to be a leader. Never think about post, power etc when you heard the word “leader”. If you are an ordinary person working in an ordinary office, still you can be a leader if you desire to influence life of others by being a perfect example to follow.
Our society needs examples, role models to follow we need people who are able to influence people to live life honestly, happily and enjoy each and every second of their life. We need Young people who believe in the theory of right action will yield right results.
We feel it as responsibility to show the way to young India to be a leader who is influencing and effecting positive changes in the society. We feel it as a responsibility to show the young India the secret of success is smile not enmity, we like to demonstrate that we can smile our way to success. We like to see Young Indians as positive leaders who are Rays of hope for other people.

Dear Friends,
We have to make a transition, from getting influenced to influencing others. It is the transition and transformation of us, base of happiness of people around us. If you can inspire at least one person to live honest and a happy life, then that will serve the purpose of your life.
We always have two choices in life to be a leader or to be follower, to be a creator or to be a creation. Biggest truth of the life is our life is in our hands, believe us it is you and only you responsible for your life. You can design your life. If the time takes away all the things who had in your hand, still one thing remain in your hand is power of choice. You and you only can choose the options in your life. No one has the power to choose the option for you.
When the young barrister was thrown to the platform he had a choice to make to accept, or to revolt against the discrimination, and he selected the later and he transformed from M.K Gandhi to Mahatma Gandhi. When the young lady found out that life is worst than hell for people in Calcutta she had options in front of her to shut the eyes and sing prayers or to take up the challenge of changing their lives. She is known to us as Mother Teresa and . when the young boy was knocked down by the cricket ball from a fast bowler he had a choice to make to surrender or to attack, today he is regarded as god of cricket in this country. We call Sachin
There is no power in this world which can appose you or take your freedom of choice. We are responsible for our life. Never think it is your manager or your teacher, or your parents, or your friends, or your colleagues having influence in your life. They are observers of your show they are actors in your script, they are toys in your hand, and they just react to you. If you decide to be happy who can take away your happiness, when you decide to be successful who can take away your success.
You and You only responsible for your life, you are responsible for your happiness, your success, your fame your wealth, your circumstances. Opportunities presents in front of you it is your choice. Of course circumstances and external factors contribute to our life. It is true that we are product of time, but it is internal choice which defines our life. Successful persons are those who use this power and unsuccessful are those who never use this power.
It is a simple truth, everyone know this, self is the best friend and worst enemy, so what is the new thing you try to tell us, will be your question, yes friends it is the simple truth, everyone would be knowing this, but it is the fact which we always forget , we end up complaining about life, complaining about others, we expect others to change, but remember the slogan “Be the change you want to see”
We believe that you and you only can bring that positive change in your life, you and you only can transform this world into a beautiful place to live. All we have to know is to learn to use the power with which we born internal choice of freedom, we can be emperor of the self, we can be self made, self sustained kings, for that we have to realize simple truths and accept them, So let begin the journey towards learning to use the inner choice of freedom.
Dear Friend,
We would have experienced moments of intense failure, we would have felt like shutting ourselves to a dark room and never to see the world again. Recall those moments, you would have analyzed those moments many times, each time coming up with a different answer to your question, why I am failed. You would have discovered thousands of complaints against others, we would have blamed our circumstances, and slowly we got into self pity and start speaking like I am the most unfortunate man in the world. Fact of the matter is failure can be attributed to no other reason rather than one reason that you decided to accept that you have failed, in a way you desired your failure you wanted to fail so you failed. War is lost because we surrendered before it started.
We see life as a coin of two sides success and failure, We measure our success and failure by external variables, by comparing with others, I will consider myself to be successful if I am to own a car like that of my neighbor, I will consider myself successful employee if I get promotion little quicker than my friend. Is it a right way to measure success, when we know for sure each one life is unique and different, each one of us is unique and different, is it right to compare with others, Success is a internal thing, when Edison failed in his attempts to invent the bulb everyone thought his attempts as failure but Edison saw each one as success. Marks in the exam, money in the bank, power in our hand, indictors of success are only an effect of a process. If process is wrong result won’t be good, sometimes in life we see the fruit but forget to see the seed.
Your happiness is the result of way you lived your life. Now look back at your success or failure stories, reason will be you made wrong choice or failed to move right choice at right moment. Each and every passing second offers us choices, we make right choice sometimes and wrong choice sometimes, but this choices collectively makes our life happy or sad. You and you only have freedom to make this choice. Life offers us choices. When we make right choice I am able to remain happy and when I make wrong choice I face problem.
Why we make wrong choices or how can we always pick right among wrong choices. We need compass to show us right direction. There is always a conflict in ourselves between our bad or weak self and good or strong self, When bad conquers the good there is wrong choice and we suffer and when good conquers the bad there is right choice we feel happy.
In short there is angel and ghost both hidden in the self. When you feed your angel it grows stronger day by day become huge and conquer your ghost sends it to the graveyard, When you feed your ghost it gains strength to conquer your angel and take away your happiness.
When you see the ghost in others, ghost in you wakes up reacts to it, and when you see the angel in others angel in you wakes up and reacts to the angel. Angel is the truth and ghost is a illusion, it is there because your never seen your angel. Moment you starting to see your angel, the moment your getting connected your angel, your ghost will fly away there won’t be a trace of it. But angel needs attention, constant attention, attention of tiger when it aims its prey, moment you take your eyes , ghost will take possession of you. That is happening in our life, a war within us, that’s why I said success is an internal thing. It is a war for the highest gift inner freedom to choose best in life.
Dear Friend,
Great Men are defined by great habits, they had unique habits, it is their habits which taken them to greater heights, it is their habits saved them from falling and becoming ordinary, it is their habits, that made them as leaders, it is their habits helped them to influence others. So if you want to be a leader, a leader who able to guide his team towards its goal, concentrate on your habits, in short feed your angel, allow your angel to guide your life.
We are slaves to our routine, we like to program ourselves to do a simple thing again, again and again. Our mind is works like a computer its pattern of work is programmed. When you’re habituated to see a particular thing , in a particular way it is difficult for you to see it in the other way. When habituated to complaining about life, even god came before you and bestows you with all the good things in the world you will still complain about your life. When you are habituated to grey side of events, you continue to see it wherever you go. When you are habituated to see bright side of events, you continue to see it wherever you go.
Rome is not built over a day, successful life won’t be and can’t be built over a few days, happiness and satisfaction is result of right actions over long period of time. When our angels gains wings and strong legs we have to keep on feed it with good food. Success is a difficult art to learn but easy art to forget, and failure is an easy art to learn and difficult art to forget. We have to stay focus, practice hard each and every second get habituated to rule the self.
How often we say I don’t want to do it but it happened, I don’t know why it happened, and we find much reason, why it happens, because we are habituated to it. Many want to stop smoking they can’t because they are addicted to the habit, they can’t live without it. We become slaves to our habits. We feel somebody have taken control over us, we become toys in their hands, and we are dancing to their tunes. But the truth is we are creator of our destiny, no one can take away the freedom of choice.
All we need is clarity, clarity and objectivity. When we lack clarity and objectivity we loss control over life. Doubts creep into our mind, slowly lose our will power, and become prey to our weakness. Clarity and objectivity comes from thinking. Intense thinking is a good habit to develop. We should ask ourselves what is objectivity of my life. I should know my priorities and should know my internal protocol.
I should check myself thoroughly, I should act like an observer viewing my life in other’s perspective, I should act like scientist experimenting with the self to bring the best and new thing out, I should be an teacher, I should check my action and ensure that it doesn’t deviate from my objective. The Person one who can check himself can become a maker, a leader , a creator. Most of us not having the habit of checking our action, most of us never spend time for the self. You are your best companion. We spend hours to talk to our friend in mobile. But never spend time to talk to the self analyze the self, We spend a lot of money to buy autobiography of leaders, never we sit to write our story, Life is a greatest gift, because best way to understand life is to live the life. Everyday some incidents happening in our life but only when we sit to reflect upon them it can become experience. So become an intense thinker by analyzing your life.
Dear Friend
We all would know the Ramayana story, if Sita would not have crossed the lakshman Rekah(line drawn by lakshman) Everything would have been fine. But she crossed and hence the great story. What is the need to mention the story here. When we cross our line, then we lose our Sita our self worth, our virtues, and our dignity. Why Sita crossed the line because she was in doubt, she was in confusion, Doubts are the weakness to our growth.
We should never doubt our principles, our objective our code of conduct should be clear to us. It should be powerful. It is our conviction gives us strength, gives us will power and respect from others. We should have total faith in our ideas, in our principles, we should not be flexible.
Our big company has a code of conduct for his employees, so that able to maintain dignity and uniformity and authority over the organization. When you lack principles or when you not have belief in your principles, you can never gain any acceptance. Leader is the one who stand up, and protect his principle. He is what he is even the total world is against him.
Following the principles, means taking decision based on your opinions, and beliefs. This is comes by practice, this gives unique identity to you. Today we based our life on physical needs. Whole life is devoted to achieve these physical needs. We accept pain and suffering for luxury a great irony, we work day and night but never find time to enjoy our food. We like to have big cars, big home, and a lot of money mad rush for money is seen everywhere. Our entire life is devoted for survival.
The end result is happiness becomes a short lived phenomenon and our struggle is forever. Science has made sure that gap between rich and poor will be expressed in our way as possible, from food, dress to home. Comfort and luxury, the science offers, are intensive for us to participate in the cut throat competition, our journey is never easy, we are running continuously always under the impression, somebody is ready to take over us. Fear of loss, Fear of defeat, gone to extreme we are under depression.
It is time to look at the life, and develop new principles for new life. Better way to earn money is not to think about it a lot. When I find a job which helps me to connect to my inner resources and opportunity to express them, money, fame, and happiness automatically flow into my life. Doing a job is to improve myself as a person and money is a side product of it. Comfort and luxury is to enjoy my aesthetic sense.
The world’s richest person needs not to be the happiest person but the happiest person is always the riches person. So instead of concentrating on external factors concentrate on internal resources, stay connected to your principles, life seems to be easy, and happy.
People spend time in the gym to become physically stronger, spend time to become spiritually stronger, think about your principles allot time to check. Every day when you’re getting up ask yourself, Who am I? What is my role in this universe? Am I performing them to my best. Honest person is always a happiest person, when heart sees the truth and get filled, doors of heaven will open to us. So draw to lakshman Rekha and Stay inside it.
Dear Friend,
Once in a village, a drama was running very successfully, it was tragedy drama, people were coming out of the theater with moist eyes, so a write in the village that never have the habit of watching drama decided to see this one. And he went to the theater and got first seat and was seeing the drama, acting was wonderful, script was nice, as expected audience were spell bound and crying in the climax, suddenly writer saw person two seat after him, smiling and seem to enjoying, writer was confused and after the drama he went and asked him, Are you impressed by the performance, the person said yes I am impressed by the performance, then why are smiling when others are crying, the person said because I am the script writer and I know the end.
So why is the story here, just to know power of being the creator, When you sit in the role of creator, the person understand the nature of life and its laws it gives you the power to be calm during storm, because you know everything is in your hand, you able to create, you understand each scene of this universe.
One of the important laws we have to know in this life is
1. There is a cause and there is an effect.
2. Everything influences everything.
3. Change is the Changeless law
4. There is a reason for everything
5. Intentions are important than actions.
6. Process is more important than result.
7. Abundance is truth and scarcity is false.
When we understand this seven point, and live our life according to it, we can promote ourselves from being a creation into the creator. Power of creator comes from its understanding, information and knowledge, poet understands science of sound better than anyone, painter understands about effect of color.
Our society needs creators, not creations quality of creator will be seen in his creation. So friends, if you need a better world to live, a better life, better experiences, Create it for you, knowledge is the magic wand and love, patience, and consistency are magic words to bring the heaven on earth.
Let people see you as creator, When your enter your home, create an atmosphere of hope, love and respect, in your office create atmosphere of cooperation, compassion and belief.
Wonderful creators never complaint about the scarcity of resources, with limited resources they able to create wonderful masterpieces, they use what they have, they use mud to create monuments, pencil and torn paper to create history, with two sticks they able to create divinity by their music.
So if you know want heaven on earth, never sit in the dark room come and create it because you and you only can create it.
Dear Friend,
1. There is a cause and there is an effect.
Nothing can happen on its own. Everything has cause and effect. You can’t escape from the effect of your action. You can’t escape from the effect of your thoughts. Never think why this has happened, that is a effect of your action. As you sow , so you reap.
2. Everything influences everything.
Nothing can live in isolation, in this script everything influences everything, your thoughts are influencing your atmosphere, and your atmosphere is influencing your thought. You are influencing your neighbors and you are influenced by your neighbors. You can’t win without others, and others can’t win without you.
3. Change is the Changeless law

Changes will happen changes are ceaseless movement of time. What is yesterday will be forget as soon as today is born. Changes are the only permanent feature of life. If you accept the change you can be happy, nothing is good or bad, change is only truth it is up to you see it as good and bad. Have love for new things, new friends, but cherish the memories of old things and old friends.

4. There is a reason for everything

Nothing can happen without a reason, and it is script having a meaning, everything happening for a good reason. So never worry about anything we are moving towards ultimate good.

5. Intentions are important than actions.
Judgment is based on your intention not based on your action. Having a thought of crime equivalent to doing the crime. So correction starts in mind not in action.
6. Process is more important than result.
Result is not important but the process is, success is measure by the execution of the process not by the result. If something is achieved through wrong means then it considered as defeat. Success is about following right path.
7. Abundance is truth and scarcity is false.
When everything is abundant here so everyone will get everything, on the surface it may look few can achieve success, but truth is everyone can abundant of what they desire so look for enemies, and don’t give excuses because abundance is truth and scarcity is false.
Dear Friend,

I leave with this note try to be leader, creator, has intense thinking for the self, develop code of conduct, never cross your principles, and understand the universal rule.

I am dependent on

You and You only to create a better world and better life.